A Miracle in the Ordinary

Have you ever considered that we might not all be meant to be exceptional? It’s a tough thought to entertain, especially if you’ve spent your life chasing excellence.

And what if we’re not meant to be multi-talented either? What if you have just one gift, something you're still unsure about or maybe only average at?

For many, being “average” feels like settling. For others, it’s a label they’re constantly trying to outrun.

Society reassures us that being average is just temporary, that our moment of brilliance is still ahead. But what if that’s not true? What if you’re simply average at most things - and that’s not a flaw, but a reality? Could you make peace with that?

What if, instead of endlessly striving for greatness, you allowed yourself to find joy in your enoughness?
Not out of complacency, but as an intentional release, from the pressure to do more, be more, prove more. What if fulfilment lives in the simple, everyday rhythms of life?

From my work in talent management, I’ve seen this play out in real time. The most resilient and successful organisations aren’t powered solely by “A-players” or standout stars. They thrive on a blend - people who show up consistently, bring creativity, and pursue progress with quiet resolve.
“B-stars,” as we sometimes call them, are the steady heartbeat of any great system.

This isn’t about giving up on growth or ambition. It’s about embracing who you are while still evolving.
It’s understanding that you may never spark a global movement or revolutionize an industry - and still, your life matters deeply.

Recently, during a devotional, I was reminded that it’s not how many talents we have that counts, it’s how we use the one we’ve been given.
If you believe in God like I do, here’s a perspective to hold onto: we are already a miracle to Him.
miracle, to the Creator of the universe. Can you believe that?

Not all gifts look extraordinary, but they are still divine.

There’s beauty in a life filled with quiet joys:
A stable job that covers the bills.
A home just the right size for your family.
The sacred rhythm of motherhood.
A morning walk.
A deep conversation.
Peace.

In our hyperconnected world, this simplicity often feels invisible, overshadowed by curated ambition and constant motion.

I’m also reminded of Me Before You, where Louisa (played by Emilia Clarke) finds delight in life’s smallest moments - a quirky outfit, a spontaneous laugh, a walk through town.
It’s a beautiful reminder: joy isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s tucked into the stillness between doing and becoming.

And yet, the internet makes choosing this path difficult. Comparison is constant. Just when you feel at peace, a scroll through social media whispers:
"You should be doing more."

Mindfulness Prompt: Gratitude

But today, I invite you to pause.

What would it feel like to stop striving… and simply be?

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